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THAT’S THE WAY LOVE GOES: MODEL MECCA MADISON

THAT’S THE WAY LOVE GOES: MODEL MECCA MADISON

Love can be very confusing at times! Kaboom! Magazine wants to help you with this crazy little thing called love in the form of our sex/relationship segment entitled “That’s The Way Love Goes.” #TTWLG is where Kaboom! Magazine allows fans and viewers of our exclusive website the chance to have their questions on sex, heartbreak, relationships, and love to be answered by their favorite celebrities/entertainment personalities. Today, Kaboom! fans get lovely advice from model/actress Mecca Madison. This Las Vegas sex symbol was a Kaboom! Magazine bombshell hot 100 model in 2015, which led to her being featured in various other magazines including Maxim, Esquire, and Arsenic throughout the year. Let’s see how Mecca tackles issues such as pulling someone out of the closet, birthday surprises, a flirty player, and many more. Checkout how Mecca feels the way your love goes.

Mecca Madison Info:

Age: 25

Zodiac Sign: Scorpio

Hometown: Las Vegas, NV

Occupation: Model

Instagram: @MeccaMadison

Twitter: @MeccaMadison

Facebook: N/A

Snapchat: @MeccaMadison

Personal Website: www.MeccaMadison.com

If you could have the career of one person (past or present) who it would have to be…..: Prince

Does True Love exist: I like to believe so.

You know you’re in love when….: When I start to bake for you.

Why should someone take your advice on love: I understand men because I think like one. I understand women because I am one.

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Hello Mecca,
I’ve been in a relationship with my man for the past 7 years and we have a son together. His family has never been supportive of our relationship and they don’t like me at all. Even though we’ve been together for so long, I don’t like some of his ways, but he has made some changes, speaking up for me against his family and he stopped hanging out every night. But, there are still things that haven’t changed like him wanting to mess around online and text other females behind my back. I’ve dealt with a lot of lies, dishonesty, and just straight games with this man. Every time I think our relationship has reached another level and think things between us has gotten better, he does something messy with some chick. I have been more than a good woman to him. I have showed him nothing but compassion, love, honesty, faithfulness, and loyalty. What have I received in a return? A bunch of lies and I’m so done. I’ve forgiven him time and time again, and thought he changed. He says he is in love with me, only wants to be with me, and he says he wants to get married. But, I feel that it’s all about actions and his actions shows otherwise. I’ve been waiting for him to “Man Up” far too long, what do I have to do to speed up this marriage process?

Sincerely,
Am I Delaying The Inevitable?

Dear Am I Delaying the Inevitable?,
It sounds like your guy has a fear of commitment or may have “The Grass is Greener on the Other Side” Syndrome. You cannot babysit a grown man! You checking up on him isn’t going to prevent him from stopping this shady behavior. He will just think of more clever ways to hide things from you. At this point, it’s best to let him go. It doesn’t have to be permanent but this will give him the message that you are not to be played with. You and your child aren’t a game. Let him know you mean business. Do not accept this behavior from him. You and your child deserve so much better. I hope this helps.

Sincerely,
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Hi Mecca,
Okay so I’ve been texting and snapchatting this girl for a few months now. We’ve known each other for years as she was a promo model for a few car shows my car crew has been a part of, so we’ve hung out all the time. We were out of touch for about 2 years, when in that time she got married and had a baby. We got back in touch because her marriage was going through some problems and they became separated. We live in different cities about an 1 hour and a half away and with her having a kid and my hectic work schedule it’s hard for us to always meet up which is why we constantly use social media to communicate with each other. Her ex-husband is a good father and does manage to stay in her life for the baby, which is not a big deal to me because I know that the baby daddy always has the opportunity to be around for his family. We have had conversations about their situation and I have asked if he still has a shot with her and she always replies with “I can’t say no because he’s my daughter’s father, but I also like you as well so please just be patience with me.” She recently sent me an invitation to her daughter 1st birthday and I thought that was her way of saying that she’s trying to give us a shot. Valentine’s Day was coming up and I wanted to do something nice for her to show my appreciation for her showing an effort. So, since I couldn’t be there in person for work reasons, I still wanted to make a way out of no way by mailing her flowers, wine, and cookies to her apartment. She got everything on valentine’s day and she was very appreciative for what I did and told me that she wanted me to mail her more of those cookies. She even said that she would save a cookie and some wine for me when I visit for the birthday party. Everything was going well, but for some reason, I got this weird feeling that I should check her instagram. When I checked her instagram, I saw a photo that she posted a couple days before Valentine’s Day of her at wedding with her baby daddy and in the caption she used the hashtags #ShitHappens #MCE #BabyDaddy. After I saw that, I felt stupid because I felt like my efforts were all for nothing and I also felt dumb for looking at her social media. Since I checked her Instagram, I haven’t text her back or snapchatted her because I know that all I wanted to ask her about is that photo and what’s going on with her baby daddy? More importantly I wanted to know why is she inviting me to this birthday party knowing that her baby daddy going to be there being all about them as a couple? A part of me is just saying f*ck it and just lose the girl number and another side of me is like you need to talk to her about it because you may have misread the entire situation. I just want to know how I should handle the whole thing because she is a good girl, but I’m not auditioning to be a side guy either. HELP ME PLEASE!

Sincerely,
Believe what you see or what you snap?

Dear Believe What You See or What You Snap,
You need to get clarification on what is going on. Ask her where your relationship stands. She may have a child with another man… but there should still be some boundaries between her and the child’s father. Especially if she is starting something new with you. I would ask her about that post as well. If you figure it out and stay together then great! If not, then at least you got closure.

Sincerely,
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Dear Mecca,
I’m currently going through ups and downs with my relationship. You see, he and I are both in the same business and have had feelings for each other for quite some time. When we first met he was in a relationship with one of my best friends, but she did cheat on him a few times and I did help her cheat on him a few of those times. Their relationship only lasted a few months. However, after the breakup, we did end up hanging out within the same circles, and after I got to know him, I considered him to be really attractive. Now, I don’t know how my homegirl knew I was attracted to him because I never said anything to anyone about it, but she did. She confronted me about being attracted to him on many occasions, but I denied it because I didn’t want to ruin a good friendship with her. Well, fast forward, they’ve since broken up since last summer, and he’s now exclusively with me. Yes, I did kind of betray my friend by hooking up with her ex, but if you knew the things she put him through you’d flip! She’s insulted him, repeatedly nagged him, and from what he’s told me, she had major anger issues towards the end of their relationship. Now, I’m not justifying my hooking up with him, but he needed someone better in his life to encourage and support him….that’s ME! When I decided to go public with our relationship, I didn’t see anything wrong with it because it’s my business. But, my friend took it upon herself to blast me and him on social media and made complete fools out of herself, me, and him. Now, people think I betrayed her, when in fact she was in the wrong for treating such a good man like dirt and then ruining my reputation. People think I’m the bad guy, when in reality she’s the child! I’m trying to ignore it because it’s childish and stupid, but the things she said are really hurtful! She’s ruined our friendship, and my relationship is suffering because of it. He’s very angry at her, but he won’t even set her straight. This is his problem too, but instead he wants me to lay low and not even respond saying, “She is a good person. She’s just upset. It’ll pass.” She’s also sent me a long-winded text message about how I’m a sh***y person and a terrible friend for lying to her. She even called me “A Dog.” I once considered her a great friend. She and I had our differences, but if there was ever something I needed or wanted to talk about, she was there with no questions asked. I want my friend back, but she’s resorted to being so childish and stupid it’s impossible. I know her and him didn’t work out, and she’s since moved on and even gotten her life together…but what can I do? She’s said some very hurtful things, and she’s supposed to be my friend. Friends don’t air their dirty laundry like that!

Sincerely,
Guilty by Accusation

Dear Guilty by Accusation,
You may not like what I have to say but… You have to put yourself in your friend’s shoes. She feels betrayed by you. In her eyes you broke girl code by dealing with her ex. You also can’t complain about how bad she mistreated your current boyfriend (her ex) when you participated in the dirt she had been doing to him. That makes you even more guilty. The best thing to do is to let it go. You may not be able to save this friendship right now. You want your friend back and your current boyfriend who used to be her ex? You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Let it go.

Sincerely,
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Hey Mecca,
For 10 years now, I’ve been with a wonderful woman who has been there for me through thick and thin. She’s the apple of my eye and my best friend. We’re teachers at the same high school. Our dean of students is my girlfriend’s uncle through marriage. Through childhood and my teens, I have battled with my sexuality, unbeknownst to anyone. Living in the world we live in now where everything ends up on social media, I just decided not to tell anyone and just live life as a heterosexual male. Now, that I am in my mid-20s, I’ve felt it was unfair to my girlfriend and live this lie. She deserved the truth and I was working on telling her myself, but things turned for the worst. I would visit gay bars in different cities and I’ve enjoyed them. I needed help coming clean. So, I went to someone I could trust. One day, I stopped by my girlfriend’s uncle’s office and decided to talk him. I knew he wouldn’t judge me and would give me the advice that best fit my problem. He told me to drop by his place and that we’d discuss it there because he was too busy at school. Later that night, I stopped by and explained my situation from childhood up until this point. I had never been with a man intimately, but I knew I no longer could resist temptation and I knew what I desired. He listened to my issues and even told me that he even fought with his sexuality at times throughout his life, so I shouldn’t feel like I’m the only one going through this. As soon as he said that, I felt this emotional connection towards him which led me to kiss him and start feeling in his lower region with my hand. Something just came over me, but he didn’t stop me and we did end up having sexual intercourse that night. When I got home I immediately took a shower because I felt dirty mentally. My girlfriend was suspicious that I took a shower immediately when I got home and begin to question if I was cheating on her. I told her no and asked why would she ask me that? She said that she had called my friend and asked was I with him and he said no. She’d been calling my phone and not getting any answers, which I had seen, but deliberately decided not to answer. I told her no, and that I had a talk with her uncle and that was the reasoning for me not answer. She called and he confirmed it. I felt so bad doing the things I’d done and I have to admit being with guys was not what I thought it was. I actually enjoy my girlfriend more. I decided not to visit gay bars anymore and to live as a straight man. I also decided not to tell my girlfriend of my infidelities because at that point I knew who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and that was her. Two weeks later, my girlfriend got a text from one of her friends which turned out to be a photo of me in a gay bar dancing with another man. About twenty minutes passed and my girl came out of the room fuming. She had been talking to her friend the entire time. I tried to explain, but she kicked me out of the house. She then went on Facebook and wrote a long rant about how her life was a lie. She outed me as a gay man and said how she was beyond mad that a man she knew for almost 7 years could hurt her so much. She would not answer my calls, text or anything. After about 3 hours passed, she had deleted the post, but the damage was done. It was the talk of the town. My girlfriend and I have a very social life and almost everybody in our city knows us and our families. I was hurt, sad, and depressed about this. I wanted to tell her, but I didn’t want her to find out like this. My girlfriend and I did eventually talk and I did come clean thinking that was gonna be it, but that would not be the case. My girlfriend wants me to blast her uncle and let everyone know his truth. I don’t want to because I know how I felt when it was done to me. He is a well-respected man in our community and tarnishing his reputation is not going to serve me justice in any way. My girlfriend is telling me that in order to work on our relationship that I have to be honest with everyone, even if that means outing her uncle. I really want to work on my relationship, but I don’t think outing my personal life or her uncle’s sexual preference is going to help much. It’s going to cause more hurt than anything. What should I do? I really love my girlfriend, but I’m not the type of guy to do this to myself or anyone else and she knows this. I’m really lost for words and feel like my back is up against the wall. Help me get in the right direction.

Sincerely,
Do Strikes Make Outs

Dear Do Strikes Make Outs,
Your girlfriend is angry. That’s understandable but it is not your responsibility to “out” someone’s sexual preference. She should be focused on you and her period. If she wants people to know the truth about him then she should take it upon herself to do so. You admitted and took responsibility for your wrong doing. That’s the only thing that matters. I hope this helps.

Sincerely,
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What’s Up Mecca,
So, here’s the deal, I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a football party. He has texted me non-stop, even texted good morning and good night every day. Not to mention he texted me as soon as we get off work. I’m pretty sure he’s a player, but because I see the best in people I am not so good at being a judge of character. Ok, so he asked to come over one night, but then when I told him he couldn’t spend the night he changed his mind. Then he proceeded to say maybe we can do dinner and a movie one night this week. I said ok. That night came, I asked him what we were going to do and he said a lot of cuddling and kissing. I reminded him that he mentioned dinner and movie; then he said he would cook for me. After I let him know that he had to bring whatever he was cooking, he decided he wasn’t about all that. So, he came over and we just hung out in my living room talking and watching TV. Then he invites me to his softball game, so I go. The following Friday night, I finally let him sleep over. We had sex, which wasn’t that great actually. He came over the next night to a party I was hosting. He spent the night again, but we didn’t have sex. The next day (Sunday) he decided that he didn’t know what he wanted anymore. He went from wanting to date me and possibly a relationship to not knowing what he wanted. However, he says he doesn’t want to end things completely. I mean seriously? What do I do now?

Sincerely,
The Game We Play

Dear The Game We Play,
Beware of men like this! This man is not being authentic with you. He told you what he thought you wanted to hear. He is a charmer and tells sweet little lies to get sex. Not the man for you. Cut him off quick!

Sincerely,
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Hello Mecca,
We have been together for a little over a year, but his mother still doesn’t want to meet me. He had an ex of 5 years, and she became best friends with his mom. After they broke up, she still calls her, has lunch with her, goes out with her, and invites her on trips. When we started seeing each other I asked him to meet his mother. So, he tried to set up lunch or dinner between the three of us so she could get to know me. But, she refused to go, she told him that the reason she didn’t want to meet me was because she did not approve of the fact that he was already dating and that he had not waited an appropriate length of time before seeing other people (according to her, he shouldn’t date for at least a year out of respect for the ex). She said he was hurting his ex for no reason by dating me. To sum it up, she told him that she respected his choice (of dating me), but didn’t agree with what he was doing, so she wanted nothing to do with me. I let it go at that point, because things were getting tense and I didn’t want to meet someone who already hated me without even knowing me. To make things worse, she even told him not to bring me home without notice, either he comes alone or she won’t receive anyone in her house (Just to be clear, my boyfriend doesn’t live with her, since he split up with his ex he lives with his dad, so he visits his mother on the weekends). It’s already been more than a year since we got together. And, his mother is still friends with the ex. They go to church together, have lunch, and his mother still invites him to join them for lunch (knowing we are together), but he refuses. He told me that, in the beginning, whenever he told her anything about me she snapped and didn’t want to listen to him. So, he couldn’t tell her anything about us, what we did, where we went or anything related to us. Recently, he’s told me that she isn’t reacting as badly as before. He gets to make comments that involve me without her snapping and yelling about how much of a horrible person I am. But, it only gets to be a very short conversation because she doesn’t show much interest. – What should I do? Should I just expect to never meet her?

Sincerely,
Mommy Did This

Dear Mommy Did This,
This is a difficult situation because your boyfriend is torn between the woman that raised him and the woman he is in love with. If his mother doesn’t want to meet you then fine. However, your boyfriend needs to make it clear to his mother that YOU are now the current woman in his life not his ex. She has to respect that. If she doesn’t, then it’s her loss. She is being very judgmental and childish. His mother’s behavior will have a negative impact on your relationship if your boyfriend doesn’t set any boundaries. He should not allow her to talk negatively about you since she does not know you. It has to stop.

Sincerely,
Mecca

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